God never gives us more than we can bear. That's certainly a beautiful thing. You know the feeling. If you live long enough you will experience grief from the loss of a love one. But God is always there to take hold of us and guide us and give us a profound hope in the face of loss. That is God's way, who miraculously leads us through the personal storm. Somehow he molds the situation into a triumph that guides us to feel and comprehend the spiritual meaning of the one we lost and loved.
God has a distinct purpose for all of our lives, and we learn more in our loss about the purpose of someones life than we can ever imagine. That's God's lesson, and most certainly that is God's way.